Monthly Archives: June 2010

Good Company

We all work very hard these days. Long hours, traffic, expected to do more with less and we often feel over worked and under-appreciated. If you are hourly you are probably working between 32 and 40 hours, that is if you only have one job! If you are salaried you are probably working between 40 and 55 hours. If you own your own business you’re probably looking at 60 to 70 hours. That is a lot of time at work! Life happens!

Yes, we all put in a lot of time and work and we do what we have to do to pay our bills, support our families and to fulfill our dreams.

To keep our sanity or at least the little we may have left, it is important to have a social life, an outlet. It is important, not to mention fun to spend time with friends and family. Going to a cookout, ball game, to the movies, dinner or just hanging out is fun, relaxing and can take your mind off of your work problems. Having friends that you can have good serious conversations or just talk about stuff can be liberating.

If you are in a relationship it is equally if not more important to spend quality time alone with just that person. They are your inspiration, your love, your lifeline and your confidante. You need to support and feed that relationship. I know you have a busy schedule but it is necessary to find one day a week or a month to have quality couple time. Go to dinner, take a walk, go on a picnic or just take a ride in the country or find some road you haven’t been down and take it. You can just sit quietly without talking and enjoy each other’s presence.

If you are a Parent, find the time to spend alone with your child. Not as a couple, or Mom and Dad or as Parental Units but just you and your child. Go to the zoo, the aquarium, camping, fishing, the museum or for ice cream. Teach them how to tie their shoe or ride a bike. Kids are great and you can learn so much from them and you have so much you can teach them. When you are old you probably won’t say ‘I wish I would have done one more report at work’, but you will probably say ‘I wish I knew my child a little better’. Remember, they will be picking out your nursing home!

The most important thing that most of us neglect to do is to spend time ALONE. I know this is a scary thought for a lot of folks. Just you, by yourself. No friends, no family, no partners, no dogs, well OK maybe the dogs!  It doesn’t matter if you take a whole day or a couple of hours but you need ‘you’ time. Take a walk, get a $5 foot long from Subway and go to the park. Take yourself to the movies or lunch. Spend quality time by yourself to get back in touch with who you are, what you are all about, where you’ve been and where you’re going. Reflect on your life; your goals and especially your accomplishments. Introduce you to yourself. Celebrate your greatness!

I know some of you are thinking ‘I should do that, sometime soon’. Do it now! Go get your appointment book if you have to and schedule your relationship time. You don’t want to be in your twilight years and say ‘I wish I would have…’

Yes, we all spend a great deal of time and energy on our work and careers. Shouldn’t we spend time on our friends, partners, family, kids and ourselves?

You just might discover what a lot of other people probably already know: You are pretty Good Company!

Post your comments below as to what you did and where you went!

Talent; Inherited or Learned?

You can call yourself a Chef, but if you can’t actually cook or even boil water, you probably aren’t one.

You can call yourself a Dancer, but if you trip over your own two feet while walking, you probably aren’t one.

Just because you have been given the title of Manager, Supervisor or Leader, that doesn’t make you one either!

People fail and that is just a brutal fact of life. You can accept the failure as a way of not doing something or you can push it aside pretending that you don’t care and avoid the truth.

To explain their failures, you might hear people say,

“I don’t have a head for business which is why my store went bankrupt.”

“Leaders are born to lead. I guess I was born to follow.”

Your brother hits more home runs than you do. You decide you don’t really like playing baseball anyway. Maybe he hits more home runs because while you are at home sitting on the couch watching ESPN, he is actually at the batting cages!

If you believe you need to inherit a skill or talent to be successful, you are one step closer to failure. Yet if you realize you can get the talent to succeed at anything you wish, you are one step closer to success. So if talent is not something you are born with, where do you get it?

How did Michael Jordan become the greatest basketball player of all time? What made Luciano Pavarotti into a great opera singer? Why was Liberace such a brilliant showman?

The most successful athletes, musicians, investors, actors, managers and doctors do not get their skills at birth. They achieve their greatness through hard, intense practice.

“In any activity, quite a bit of what passes for ‘talent’ is really just practice.”

One can train one’s body, one’s eyes, and one’s hands and feet until, with practice, they sort of just do it. One no longer has to ‘think’ about your skill, like breathing: one just DOES it.

The same principle applies to crafts and professions which mainly use the mind. The lawyer who has not drilled on courtroom procedure may not have learned to shift his mental gears fast enough to counter new turns of a case and loses it. A green salesman who has not rehearsed selling can starve for lack of sales. A Leader who has not practiced the skills of leadership will just be another person failing at getting people to perform to the best of their abilities.

“The right answer is to practice, practice and practice!” — L. Ron Hubbard from The Way to Happiness

Examples:

Winston Churchill, one of the world’s greatest speakers, practiced his speeches compulsively.

Michael Jordan was cut from his high school basketball team which proves his talent was not natural. Instead, he practiced his famous basketball moves for more hours every day than anyone else in the game.

The great pianist Liberace began playing the piano at age 4. He had a 17-yr. Scholarship to the Wisconsin Conservatory of Music from the age of 7. Liberace practiced his skill 4 to 5 hours a day, every day.

The best musicians, writers, actors, surgeons, managers, computer programmers, artists, politicians, dentists, chefs, pilots and electricians all become the best through hours and hours and hours of practice. And their practice is intense.

For example, running around the block for fun is not practice, which is why most amateur runners do not improve. Practice means running and running and running for miles every day to improve your speed and stamina.

Part of our problem is our need for immediate gratification.  We want; what we want; when we want it; and we want it now! I am certainly no exception. I desperately want to be able to sketch, draw and paint. I have the books, tablets, pencils, brushes and paints. I attempted to draw a cup, from lesson one mind you, it came out like crap. Immediately I said I guess I’m not an artist. Perhaps I should try again!  OK, who’s up for giving me lessons?

Role-playing is how you practice to become a great lawyer, a great doctor, a great speaker or a great manager, supervisor or leader. Much of this practice can be done with a coach, as well as on the job.

To succeed as a manager, you need to spend many hours bringing out the best performance possible from each of your employees. You need to try different approaches with different individuals until you discover what approach works best. The more you practice the better your staff will be and the better you will be.

Every skill can be practiced and improved: managing, leading, delegating, negotiating, giving feedback, giving speeches, driving race cars, using computers, writing reports, teaching students, managing money, fixing engines, building houses, everything.

Very few people are born with talent. But with practice, everyone, including you, can become talented at anything!

These are the steps you should follow:

  • Write down a talent you wish to gain.
  • Break down the talent into all of its skills. Make a thorough list.
  • For example, to be a great manager you need to learn to manage a vast array of individuals. You need to learn people skills, personalities and work habits. To be a great accountant you need to master math. To be a great dancer you need to master all of the various dance steps. To be a great mechanic you need to master all of the various engines, car makes and models.  You might have a list of 100 individual skills.
  • Work out how to practice each individual skill. Some skills you can practice on your own while others require study or research or a coach to help you master the skill.
  • Practice for as many hours as you can stand, each day, until each skill is perfect and you gain the talent you desire. You will find that you actually even get more work done while you are practicing!
  • Every time you fail at something you must remember that it is not a failure but merely practice. Turn the loss into an opportunity. Which of your skills need more work?
  • Constantly improve your skills. Everyone has room for improvement.

Always remember that failure is only the opportunity to begin again, only this time more wisely.

As a result of your constant improvement, you will gain all the skills and talent you need to succeed at being a great manager, supervisor, leader or anything else that you set out to do!

Can a Woman do the Job?

I  just received this question on ‘Ask John’

“I have been interviewing for a male dominated position in grocery sales. The question keeps coming up of how would I motivate and relate to the male team. (Such as an overnight stock crew and sales team.) My question is how would you suggest building this team differently than any other?”

It is disappointing and discouraging that we are still talking about male dominated positions in this day and age. It is even more disappointing that we are talking about a person’s gender as opposed to their ability to perform the job. I won’t even go into the legal and HR ramifications of this! I would first ask if you are sure you want to work for this organization? If so, then you need to focus on your strengths, not your gender.

The company wants to know what you will do for them. You need to focus on increased and improved performance and productivity. These will increase profits which is what a company looks to achieve.

You need to explain to them how you will integrate the team building with real-time work goals, by establishing a systematic workplace integration and follow-up process.

By our psychological make-up men and women respond differently to the team building process. Not always but typically, men tend to be more competitive than women, or at least they show it more readily. Explain how you can use that competitive nature to your advantage. Which team will stock the shelves faster, unload the truck faster, and have fewest mistakes or no accidents. This is the type of team building that I think would be effective.

You need to discuss how motivating and relating to the team, any team, is about creating an environment in which people have an impact on decisions and actions that affect their jobs. By getting the team’s buy in, asking for their opinions, will increase participation and as a result should improve performance.

I would explain how fostering teamwork is creating a work culture that values collaboration. In a teamwork environment, people understand and believe that thinking, planning, decisions and actions are better when done cooperatively. People recognize, and even assimilate the belief that “none of us is as good as all of us.”

What do you bring to the table? What are your skills and strengths? Focus on your past accomplishments. Explain how you have mentored, motivated and related to past groups of people.

Explain how you will use the team itself to model the behavior you expect from the team.

You should avoid discussions about gender and focus on goals, expectations and performance.

For you to remain positive there are a couple of things that you should keep in mind. The following is from “Chipping Away at the Glass Ceiling” by Dawn Rosenberg McKay: In 1999, Carly Fiorina became President and CEO of Hewlett-Packard Company. In 1997 New York City’s famous Plaza Hotel hired its first female doorman (or doorperson). During the same year, the NBA announced that they had hired their first female referees. These stories are only the fairly recent of many “firsts” for women. The following information was found in the ABC-CLIO Companion to Women in the Workplaceby Dorothy Schneider and Carl F. Schneider (ABC-CLIO, Inc., 1993): in 1881, Louise Blanchard Bethune, the first female professional architect, set up practice in Buffalo, New York. In 1903 Mignon Nicholson became the first woman veterinarian. In 1910 the first woman police officer was appointed under civil service regulations in Los Angeles. Just think — so many years later we are still talking about women breaking ground by taking non-traditional jobs.

So you see, you can do this!

You need to stay positive and have a detailed plan drawn out as to how you will improve the efficiency of the team as a whole. You need to have a sense of humor and perhaps be a bit more assertive. If they ask you again how you would relate to the male team you might tell them that your focus is on performance and productivity, and that you won’t hold it against them that they happen to be men!

Remember there are a lot of bee’s in the hive but only one Queen!

Courage

If you think about the entire existence of the Universe, your life span could be compared to snapping your fingers. In other words, life is short – very short. Missing out on any of the joys life offers is a tragedy, but how many of us miss out on the joy life has to offer because we are afraid?

If your life is being controlled by your fears, you are most certainly cheating yourself, as well as those around you. If you are controlled by your fears you are not open to learn from others or share your greatness with them and this is denying them the opportunity to learn from you.

You have muscles and you exercise to keep them strong and healthy. They say the heart is the largest muscle we have. I suppose it is probably the largest physical muscle, but Courage is the mental muscle that conquers fear. Like all muscles, the more you use them the stronger they become. We are not born with courage because we are born fearless. As we age we develop fear which means we need to develop courage.

No one wants to be in prison but individuals who fail to develop courage, remain confined in mental prisons and face each day as mental lightweights.

It has been said if you face the thing you fear, fear leaves you. Think of the first time you tried to ride a bike. You probably fell off and were afraid. Someone made you get back on that bike, you did, you rode successfully and suddenly that fear was gone. You conquered it! Congratulations!

Everyone has fear it’s just that courageous people understand the importance of facing their fears and taming them like a wild horse. Have you ever heard of Eddie Rickenbacker? Edward Vernon Rickenbacker (October 8, 1890 – July 27, 1973) was an American fighter ace in World War I and Medal of Honor recipient. He was also a race car driver and automotive designer, a government consultant in military matters and a pioneer in air transportation, particularly as the longtime head of Eastern Air Lines. Eddie said “Courage is doing what you are afraid to do. There can be no courage without fear.” We all have fear; however, not everyone becomes subservient to their fears.

There is, very likely, something you have wanted to do for years – move to another city, start your own business, apply for that better position, change careers, go after the big account, ask someone to marry you, buy a house, start a family. Whatever it is you should do it. Remember, life is not a dress rehearsal. This is it. Curtain up, show time! A little courage leads to more courage; it’s like a snowball rolling downhill.

Take a look around you at the people you know who live without courage. They hide in the shadows of others. They have no opinions because they are afraid. They make no attempt to lead. They sit in the back corners. They almost seem non-existent. They merely tiptoe through life, quiet as a church mouse hoping they make it safely to death. Is this any way to live your life?

You and I were never meant to live this way. We were not meant to ride the little horse on the merry-go-round. We were meant to ride a Champion! We were meant to grab life by the reigns and say ‘let’s go’! If we fall off we were meant to get up and get back on! Learn to live the way you like by no longer living as you dislike. So buck up little pony and let’s ride!

What fear will you face, attack and conquer this week?

What will you do this week to attack the remainder of your days with an abundance of courage?

Now that’s living life to the fullest!

Attitude. What’s Yours?

I had the blues because I had no shoes until upon the street; I met a man who had no feet.  ~Ancient Persian Saying

Yes, we all have difficulties, trials and tribulations in our lives. We are not alone, it is a big world and chances are someone, somewhere has been through it before.

We spend too much time being envious of what others have, wanting more for ourselves, wondering why they have what we want. Why do we spend so much time focusing on others and on what they have? Shouldn’t we be spending more time focusing on us, on what we have, on the gifts that we have been given?

Have you ever sabotaged someone else’s dream, or not been supportive because that might give them the upper hand? Jealousy can be a terrible disease.

The Pursuit of Happiness (Author Unknown)

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour a day to drain the fluids from his lungs. His bed was next to the room’s only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.

The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and   families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation. And every afternoon when the man in the bed next to the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.

The man in the other bed would live for those one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the outside world. The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake, the man had said. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Lovers walked arm in arm amid flowers of every color of the rainbow. Grand old trees graced the landscape, and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance. As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by.  Although the other man could not hear the band, he could see it in his mind’s eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words. Unexpectedly, an alien thought entered his head: Why should he have all the pleasure of seeing everything while I never get to see anything? It didn’t seem fair. As the thought fermented, the man felt ashamed at first. But as the days passed and he missed seeing more sights, his envy eroded into resentment and soon turned him sour. He began to brood and found himself unable to sleep. He should be by that window – and that thought now controlled his life.

Late one night, as he lay staring at the ceiling, the man by the window began to cough. He was choking on the fluid in his lungs. The other man watched in the dimly lit room as the struggling man by the window groped for the button to call for help. Listening from across the room, he never moved, never pushed his own button which would have brought the nurse running. In less than five minutes, the coughing and choking stopped, along with the sound of breathing. Now, there was only silence–deathly silence.

The following morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths. When she found the lifeless body of the man by the window, she was saddened and called the hospital attendant to take it away–no words, no fuss. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look. Finally, he would have the joy of seeing it all himself. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed.

It faced a blank wall.

Moral of the story:

The pursuit of happiness is a matter of choice…it is a positive attitude we consciously choose to express. It is not a gift that gets delivered to our doorstep each morning, nor does it come through the window. And I am certain that our circumstances are just a small part of what makes us joyful. If we wait for them to get just right, we will never find lasting joy.

The pursuit of happiness is an inward journey. Our minds are like programs, awaiting the code that will determine behaviors; like bank vaults awaiting our deposits. If we regularly deposit positive, encouraging, and uplifting thoughts, if we continue to bite our lips just before we begin to grumble and complain, if we shoot down that seemingly harmless negative thought as it germinates, we will find that there is much to rejoice about.

I had the blues because I had no shoes until upon the street; I met a man who had no feet.  ~Ancient Persian Saying

You can choose to be happy and grateful for whom we are and the gifts that we have been given or we can choose to be unhappy, miserable and jealous of others. The choice is ours and ours alone to make.

Which will you choose and what will be your attitude this week?

Inspiring the People You Lead

“Good leaders make people feel that they’re at the very heart of things, not at the periphery. Everyone feels that he or she makes a difference to the success of the organization. When that happens people feel centered and that gives their work meaning.” –Warren G. Bennis

As a leader, your ability to inspire the people you lead is a function of your willingness to allow them to shine.
Inspiration is not about proving yourself or point of view right, or suppressing the opinions of others, or proving them wrong. Inspiration isn’t about impressing people with your own intelligence or ability, or showing others that they are not as smart as you.

Inspiration is about bringing out the very best in others. Inspiration is about letting others know that you appreciate them and their contributions.

In order to inspire the people you lead, you need to recognize their unique gifts and abilities, and reward them for expressing their own creativity and dedication. Inspiring people means letting them be great, and letting them know… that you know they are great.

You have a lot of opportunities to inspire people but I have found these five to work time after time:

  • Ask
  • Acknowledge
  • Interact
  • Acquiesce
  • Opportunity

Start inspiring the people you lead…

  1. Begin a practice of taking individuals aside from time to time and ask them for their insight or opinion about something important. Let them think about the challenges and problems that you think about, that you are facing, and allow yourself to be open and accepting to the solutions or insights they contribute. As I stated in Assessing Your Employees, http://www.createawinningteam.com/assessing-your-employees, spending direct 1:1 time with your associates is invaluable for both you and them. You might just be surprised where the best ideas come from.
  2. Make a point to acknowledge people for the work they do, but especially for the work they don’t think you know they do! People want to be recognized and appreciated for what they do. A simple ‘Thanks for a job well done’, or ‘Thanks for all of the effort you put into that project’ is all that is needed. Just letting people know that you not only acknowledge their efforts but appreciate them goes a very long way.
  3. Make it your mission to personally interact with people at every level of your organization. Saying hello to the people you pass in the halls can go a long way. I am not talking about interacting once a year or so. I know there are companies that hold a summer cook out or BBQ once a year. The top Execs are behind the grill serving up hotdogs, being friendly and acting like they are just one of the common folk. The reality is your people are not stupid. They know you ignored them yesterday and that you will ignore them again tomorrow. How about trying to just be real? Have you asked the switchboard operator to your office for coffee? If it weren’t for them you wouldn’t get any calls. Do you even know the name of the person who cleans your office? Your people want to be with you and get to know you, and they want you to know who they are. Interacting with people at every level of your organization’s hierarchy helps dissolve any resentment between the ranks and create a culture where everyone feels like they matter. Too many organizations operate on the We / Them attitude when it they should be operating on the US approach.
  4. Acquiesce to others. OK, we all know you’re the boss which means you get to be right even when you’re wrong! How about giving the people you work with the experience of being heard once in a while? Allow them to make a significant contribution by giving them the benefit of the doubt even when you disagree with them. Yielding to other people’s opinions, when appropriate, helps foster respect and mutual admiration. Is it really that important for you to be right? Or is the most important thing the ability to accept the right decision, regardless of whose idea it is?
  5. Give other people the opportunity to lead. Allow and encourage people to express and develop their own leadership by catering to their strengths. Far too often we pigeon hole people into whatever job they are currently doing without considering what they are capable of doing. Just because someone typically unloads a truck doesn’t mean they can’t merchandise the floor. You need to look at people’s potential and not just what they are doing at the moment. Do you think you have the wrong employee? Maybe you have the right employee in the wrong job. Give people the opportunity to demonstrate their leadership.

Being able to inspire the people you lead is critically important if you desire to create a vibrant and productive company culture. It’s not just about making people feel good, you can do that by giving them sugar. It’s about what people are capable of producing when they believe in themselves, and when they find meaning and purpose in their work. If you are going to inspire the people you lead, you must treat them as equals, show them respect and give them the opportunity to let them show you their greatness!

How Companies Build or Destroy Employee Loyalty

A blog, like art should inspire conversation, debate and yes at times even controversy if it creates awareness or stirs thought.

The goal and objective of a company is to make a profit. The question that a company needs to answer is;

Do we make a profit as a byproduct, as an end result, by creating employee loyalty, and by establishing a culture that promotes teamwork and appreciates the contributions of the associates?

Or

Do we make a profit by destroying employee loyalty, by treating our employees as the slaves who built the pyramids and the Kings Tombs and Palaces?

There are a lot of ways Great companies build employee loyalty.

Some focus on training and providing employees advancement opportunities. Some Executives don’t take raises to ensure that their employees will get increases. Some offer the employees the opportunity to voice their opinions and to be an active part of the company growth, offering large stock options and bonus pay for performance programs.

There are many free or low-cost benefits that can increase employee satisfaction and boost company morale. Consider the following options:

  • Provide direct deposit, saving workers regular trips to the bank, with the banks often offering them favorable benefit
  • Offer interest-free computer loans, through which companies purchase the computer and set up a payment plan with the employee
  • Order in lunch once in a while, especially during crunch time for a project
  • Offer free sodas or subsidize soda and snack vending machines
  • Give employees a free vacation day on their birthday or a floating holiday
  • Consider discounts from local merchants — often gyms or parking lots, for example — that will give a discount if a certain number of employees sign up
  • Have regular movie nights, including refreshments
  • Give employees a chance to relax by treating them to tickets to a theater or a baseball game.
  • Retain a coffee service to provide free — and tasty — coffee to your employees
  • Offer free yoga classes to relieve stress
  • Bring in a masseuse and treat your employees to a free massage
  • Reward them with “work-from-home” days

Here are a few more ways great companies build employee loyalty and increase morale:

25 Ways to Reward Your Employees
(Without Spending a Dime)
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Then unfortunately, there are the ‘other’ Not Great Company approaches: don’t do anything that will improve the workplace for the associates or improve their work lives.

  • You can have as the company’s core values Accusation, Humiliation and Crucifixion. That’s sure to be a winner for building Employee Loyalty!
  • You can sit in your ivory tower and condemn the actions of your employees.
  • You can have the ‘no idea is a good one unless it’s mine’ attitude.
  • You can base promotions or rewards on politics instead of performance.
  • You can take the ‘I am King and you are peasants’ approach.
  • You can set policy and procedures based on a whim and not take into consideration how it will affect the employees who actually do the work.
  • You can support the employees should do more with less philosophy.

All of these things are sure fire ways that Not Great companies manage to destroy employee loyalty.

I received an email about one national retailer who reportedly downsized through workforce reduction between 150 and 200 employees in 2009 due to ‘bad business and the bad economy’. I was told that most of these employees were long time associates who had been directly involved with the prior success of the organization.

Ironically the total compensation for the top four Executives for 2009 (the same time period where 150 to 200 loyal associates were forced out) INCREASED 56.5%! Wow, I can see that business must have been very bad!

  • The CFO had a compensation increase of 81.56%
  • The Vice Chair had a compensation increase of 85.1%
  • An Exec VP had a compensation increase of 67.7%
  • Another Exec VP had a compensation increase of 54.5% (Boy, I bet he was ticked off, only 54.5 %!)

Since non-retail companies typically run an employee turnover of 10 to 15%, you might think an employee turnover of approximately 97% seems ridiculously high, but that is the national average for retail. That being said, if a company is running about a 250% employee turnover I am thinking employee loyalty is not very high and it must not be a place where employees want to work!

This behavior is sure to get you into the Best 100 Companies to work for book! NOT!

In his Article, “Employee Retention: What Employee Turnover Really Costs Your Company,” Ross Blake details some astounding statistics regarding the costs of employee turnover.

“Several well-regarded studies have recently estimated the cost of losing an employee:

  • SHRM, the Society for Human Resource Management, estimated that it costs $3,500.00 to replace one $8.00 per hour employee when all costs — recruiting, interviewing, hiring, training, reduced productivity, et cetera, were considered. SHRM’s estimate was the lowest of 17 nationally respected companies who calculate this cost!
  • Other sources provide these estimates: It costs you 30-50% of the annual salary of entry-level employees, 150% of middle level employees, and up to 400% for specialized, high level employees!
  • Do a quick calculation: Think of a job in your organization where there has been some turnover, perhaps supervisors. Estimate their annual average pay and the number of supervisors you lose annually. For example, if their average annual pay is $40,000, multiply this by .125% (or 125% of their annual pay, a reasonable cost estimate for supervisors). This means it costs $50,000 to replace just one supervisor. If this company loses ten supervisors a year, then 10 times $50,000 equals $500,000 in replacement costs for just supervisors. This is the bottom line cost. The top line cost? If the company’s profit margin is 10%, then it costs $5,000,000 in revenues to replace these ten supervisors.”

I have to wonder and question if the Board of Directors for any organization is fully aware of the high cost of employee turnover resulting from a lack of employee loyalty. Perhaps keeping the top executives who create the turnover, costing the company major loss of profits, is not the best solution.

So now you can see two different examples of how companies handle Employee Loyalty: the Great and the Not Great.

If you are an Executive or a member of the Executive Committee for your company, what approach are you taking to make a profit?

Are you building and creating employee loyalty, and if so how are you doing that?

Or, are you having your associates build you another pyramid while you sit and observe from your palace?

If you are an employee which approach do you think your company is taking?

If you are an employee, which type of organization would you want to work for?

The Pursuit of Happiness

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour a day to drain the fluids from his lungs. His bed was next to the room’s only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.

The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and   families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation. And every afternoon when the man in the bed next to the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.

The man in the other bed would live for those one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the outside world. The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake, the man had said. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Lovers walked arm in arm amid flowers of every color of the rainbow. Grand old trees graced the landscape, and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance. As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by.  Although the other man could not hear the band, he could see it in his mind’s eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words. Unexpectedly, an alien thought entered his head: Why should he have all the pleasure of seeing everything while I never get to see anything? It didn’t seem fair. As the thought fermented, the man felt ashamed at first. But as the days passed and he missed seeing more sights, his envy eroded into resentment and soon turned him sour. He began to brood and found himself unable to sleep. He should be by that window – and that thought now controlled his life.

Late one night, as he lay staring at the ceiling, the man by the window began to cough. He was choking on the fluid in his lungs. The other man watched in the dimly lit room as the struggling man by the window groped for the button to call for help. Listening from across the room, he never moved, never pushed his own button which would have brought the nurse running. In less than five minutes, the coughing and choking stopped, along with the sound of breathing. Now, there was only silence–deathly silence.

The following morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths. When she found the lifeless body of the man by the window, she was saddened and called the hospital attendant to take it away–no words, no fuss. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his   first look. Finally, he would have the joy of seeing it all himself. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed.

It faced a blank wall.

Moral of the story:

The pursuit of happiness is a matter of choice…it is a positive attitude we consciously choose to express. It is not a gift that gets delivered to our doorstep each morning, nor does it come through the window. And I am certain that our circumstances are just a small part of what makes us joyful. If we wait for them to get just right, we will never find lasting joy.

The pursuit of happiness is an inward journey. Our minds are like programs, awaiting the code that will determine behaviors; like bank vaults awaiting our deposits. If we regularly deposit positive, encouraging, and uplifting thoughts, if we continue to bite our lips just before we begin to grumble and complain, if we shoot down that seemingly harmless negative thought as it germinates, we will find that there is much to rejoice about.

What will your attitude be this week?